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Well intentioned comment, but that works when people share the same optimizing view towards life.

Think about how many people within your own extended family do this? Take a guess, deliver this talk to them and track through life how many follow the path.

We chimps display a wide spectrum of Personality traits and an even wider spectrum of Needs, which are constantly changing through life and the events that effect it. Dangerous to assume whatever system you have accepted will be accepted by all.

Its easy to come up with all kinds of theories about "what works" and "how things should be" but that is usually based on our limited awareness of the spectrum.