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by ketzo 2145 days ago
It was pretty jarring. You’re reading along, fascinated if you’re me, then jarringly reminded of the fact that this was a human being, not a Petri dish. Empathy’s gotta be one of the most important skills for an experimental social psychologist.
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chki 2145 days ago
>Empathy’s gotta be one of the most important skills for an experimental social psychologist.

Or maybe the exact opposite? I would find it very hard to do research and empathize with the subject of my research at the same time.

This has also just made me realized that this problem with empathizing with my research is actually highly problematic when it comes to the research I am actually doing at the moment.

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correnos 2145 days ago
An EMT friend described her take as, you need empathy in order to help people, but you need to be able to switch it off because sometimes what you're about to do is going to hurt them.

It's like any of our instinctual responses. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it's in the way.

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KozmoNau7 2144 days ago
It's not really switching it off as such, it's more that you have to "long-term empathize" with the person you're helping.

Setting a broken bone or popping a joint back in to place will hurt right now, but the consequences of not doing it will hurt the person a lot more over time. So you do inflict pain on them right in the moment, which is certainly unpleasant to do, but in the hope that the overall pain and discomfort for them will be significantly lessened.

At least that's how a friend of mine (former firefighter) put it.

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