[kerkeslager]

The decisions I've made in my life which I've looked back on the most positively were ones that were far outside my comfort zone, and I'm not going to pretend I did that on my own courage. In every case it's been because someone gave me a kick in the pants. Call it a "personal indictment" if you wish, but the intentions aren't to hurt the person, it's to motivate them.

[mercer]

See my other comment, but I'd love to hear actionable steps to take to make these decisions with 'outside courage'!