[blue52]

I've found the best way is just to accept the silly label if someone accuses you of "racism".

[mcv]

My approach is to try to understand in what way I might still be racist and improve myself.

[skinkestek]

That is a good attitude, in line with what others are talking about with "original sin".

My and I guess many others point in this thread is that a lot of people are running around alienating a lot of people who would be ashamed to even catch themselves thinking a racist thought by insisting they are "racist" since they might have implicit biases.