[mattbrewsbytes]

There is a blog post on the Art of Manliness about how to fall asleep in 2 minutes based on research done during WWII to help pilots rest [0]. You can begin training now so the middle of the night feedings, etc. can be handled easier.

Beyond life saving things, like prevention of SIDS for example, there are a ton of books out there with different tips or techniques on raising a child. Treat them like you would someone telling you about a new software development process: there might be some stuff that might apply, some of it just doesn't matter or work for your situation.

As time goes on realize your child is their own person. They may not have the same interests or beliefs as you do and that should be okay.

Other practical things: instead of toy/clothes gifts from relatives, setup a college/savings fund and an easy way for them to put money in it as gifts. Don't go overboard on clothes for the first 18-24 months. Keep a couple sentimental things if that's your style but they outgrow clothes sometimes surpassing sizes before they even wear them.

[0] https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/fall-asleep-fast/