[LandR]

> I know it's an anecdote but a very attractive women once told me the only difference between attractive and not is effort.

I think this is nonsense. I'm like a 2/10 looks wise on a good day. No amount of effort is getting that number anywhere close to what people find acceptable.

I can wear the nicest clothes money can buy, I'm still going to be seen as a well dressed ugly guy.

[greggman3]

Unless you've got leprosy or elephant man disease you're more likely than not lying to yourself and refusing to take responsibility for your present situation

https://www.google.com/search?q=ugly+to+handsome+transformat...

https://www.google.com/search?q=ugly+to+hot+transformations&...

I'm sure you'll rebel against my "tough love" but you can only lead a horse to water ...