[irrational]

My Mom wants gift cards for gift occasions. But she also sends out gift cards for birthdays or whatever. She doesn’t understand why my siblings and I think this is so funny. She sends us a $25 gift card for our birthday and we send her a $25 gift card from the same place for her birthday.

[Trav5]

My wife's family does the same thing, but with cash and checks and sometimes gift cards. Cracks me up.

[jhbadger]

For reasons I don't entirely understand, a large number of people think that giving a gift card is "more polite" than checks or cash. Even though you are literally giving just a worse version of cash that can only be used in one store.

[lmm]

Any gift is a worse version of cash that can only be used for one specific item, if you want to think of it that way.

[tialaramex]

Not everything is for sale. Things can be freely given that you wouldn't, and in some cases are not allowed to, sell.

But even beyond that some gifts that could be bought are valuable to the recipient disproportionately to what it cost for the giver to purchase them, for a variety of reasons.

[lmm]

> But even beyond that some gifts that could be bought are valuable to the recipient disproportionately to what it cost for the giver to purchase them, for a variety of reasons.

My point is that those are the same reasons that recipients value gift cards more than the same cash amount (though to a lesser extent).