[tialaramex]

I don't agree that choosing not to offer a product or service which is popular but which you believe is a terrible idea is "weirdly fascist".

I would suggest instead that demanding other people figure out whatever weird quirks you have and then cater to them under the guise of being "child friendly" is at best weirdly fascist.

And it seems you at least reluctantly agree this that can't work even if you wish A&A would try to do it anyway, since all the systems you listed involve you explicitly configuring what you want blocked, allowing you to take responsibility for the inevitable under/overblocking. This approach works fine† with A&A since it doesn't ask anything of them.

† Well, as "fine" as can be expected, no worse than at other providers.