[wdr1]

You're working at the wrong place.

I've worked at startups that had more of the culture you desire, as well as places that have the culture you're current describing.

During the interview process you need to ask the right set of questions to help you understand the culture of the company & that it's a fit for you.

I found this out the hard way, but each job I learned a bit about what I didn't like & added to my questions to understand the next gig better. Over time I learned what I actually wanted & sought that out.