Have you actually seen an apache in the wild in the last few years? No one picks it anymore, I'm not sure why.. Well, besides the fact that nginx is now nginx-ingress-controller and we all use k8.. :/
Why does no one pick it anymore? The reason is twofold: (1) the amount of FUD that surrounds it, based on old comparisons of nginx and Apache httpd 1.3 or 2.x using Prefork and (2) cool-kid syndrome. This thread itself is a perfect example.
Apache still runs some really big websites that likely have more requests than many of these startups. Ticketmaster has used Apache for almost 15 years as their primary webserver (but they're fronted by layers of varnish / Akamai). They also maxed out dual 10G links with web traffic in 2007 or so when I worked for them.
I still use it to have basic auth connected to LDAP.
The weakness of nginx is that it can't have a dynamic module and if it's not compiled in, you need to roll your own build, which I won't do due to maintenance burden.
The most amazing guy who wrote the book on mod_rewrite (Rich Bowen) is from the same tiny town where I grew up in. The apache software foundation upstream folks are super good people.