[ericol]

As already stated, it's not your fault, and honestly the tip of the iceberg of this problem is that such illnesses are not even considered as such by society at large.

My eldest daughter, that is an incredible bright and intelligent person was just where you are early January this year with her partner.

I eventually got tired of telling people that he was sick, that he was not to blame for his actions. And even rationalizing this is very difficult to not feel otherwise.

Stay strong, seek company, don't blame yourself.

[hack_hacker]

Thanks very much. My cyondolesenes to your daughter, hope she is in well place now.

[ericol]

Thanks. She's a strong woman as well and, as devastating as these events are she's moving forward with her life, up to the point that she is planning to move to Germany in a few months.

Have a nice day.