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achievements put too much of the focus on things that can be completed. these are things I find impressive in a young person

- consistently being mindful and compassionate; empathy and ability to listen

- donating one's time to help those less fortunate - often those who are to proud to ask

- being able to converse with those around without seeking to impress or gain the upper hand

- respect for wisdom: recognizing that however smart you may be, you're way behind those who have experienced much of life