[sgillen]

It's just that if you put lot of effort into isolating a bug for someone for free, it can feels bad to have it rejected without explanation.

Also if it's a real issue that you won't fix you should at least leave the issue open so other people know.

IMO you can definitely be extremely grateful for someone's contribution and also think they are sort of rude, not incompatible views/feeling.

[dragandj]

> ...isolating a bug for someone...

I think you mistakenly switched the roles there. You are not isolating a bug for the author. The author is using their software and is happy with its current state. It is you that is being hit by a supposed bug, and you are isolating it for yourself. Then you are expecting the author to do the additional work for you and handle your supposed fixes. Don’t get me wrong, you’re probably both helping each other in the best spirit of open source, but it’s not you who’s the ideal of generosity there.

[franciscop]

This a thousand times. If you hit a bug on my code and put together a PR to fix it, the reasons I would merge it are in order of importance:

1. For you, since you are nice and helpful debugging it and fixing it for you and others so I want to make it easy for you to use the working code.

2. For other users that might hit the bug, for every PR bugfix there are likely N people hitting the bug.

3. For me in case I hit it in the future.

4. For correctness sake.

But not all bugs are straightforward, many have side-effects or disadvantages that I might not be comfortable merging straight away. So I have to evaluate how long it'll take me to review the PR and whether it's even worth-it (the vast majority of times PRs are worth-it, but issues are a hit and miss).

[growse]

> It's just that if you put lot of effort into isolating a bug for someone for free, it can feels bad to have it rejected without explanation.

Where does that bad feeling come from? Does it come from the fact that you feel like you're owed a response? Do you get the same feeling when you email strangers and they don't respond?

> Also if it's a real issue that you won't fix you should at least leave the issue open so other people know.

> IMO you can definitely be extremely grateful for someone's contribution and also think they are sort of rude, not incompatible views/feeling.

You're not entitled to gratitude. Assuming that people should & will run their own projects according to your values around courtesy is a little self-centred.

If you need the bug fixing and the maintainer isn't doing it fast enough, just fork it. This is the point of open source.

[sgillen]

> Where does that bad feeling come from? Does it come from the fact that you feel like you're owed a response? Do you get the same feeling when you email strangers and they don't respond?

It's just the time spent for me, I mean if for some reason I put like an hour of my time composing an email to a stranger and they didn't respond I would unhappy. It would be my fault but I would still be unhappy.

I agree that no one is entitled to have everyone act nice to them. I just think it's nice to tell someone why you're closing their issue.

> If you need the bug fixing and the maintainer isn't doing it fast enough, just fork it. This is the point of open source.

100%

[growse]

I can understand this. I think once I realised that there was significant value to me in putting the bug report together in the first place, I felt happier if it just got closed or ignored.

There's something about putting time and effort into writhing a good bug report that forces you to truly try and understand what's happening.