[bonzini]

Yes but I wasn't too comfortable with hacking the remote control because I wasn't sure if the button shorted the two contacts towards Vcc or ground (so if I needed an NMOS or PMOS). My knowledge of electronics is super minimal, I can read schematics, design simple circuits, size resistors, etc. but reverse engineering is beyond my level.

Also I used this remote control only because one of the switches was broken, I didn't have a spare one so I couldn't afford breaking it.

An optocoupler would be better but I figured maybe one day I will repurpose the relay shields for something else, or unsolder the relays. Actually my next project involves both optocouplers (for efficient 12V->3.3V conversion) and relays to drive AC but I will probably have a PCB manufactured for that one!