I've been using about the same amount of time. Have you tried using python and bazel? Now there's some real weeping and gnashing of teeth ;) Lot's of bad code depending on python == python2 type of non-sense.
Javascript is another target that is just about as gnarly. The node module resolution algorithm is reimplemented a million similar-but-not-quite-the-same-ways by popular packages, most of which struggle dealing w/ symlink-heavy codebases (like bazel sandboxes).