[pohl]

If we can find ways for men inside the spectrum to hook up with women outside the spectrum, that may help in the long run.

http://www.wired.com/wired/archive/9.12/aspergers_pr.html

[yummyfajitas]

There is an extensive literature on this topic, and a community devoted to educating people about it.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction_Community