[LoSpietato]

Some aspects should be taken in to account.

1 People that desperately want to be good at something are delusional because thats is just a dream they see themselves already there but they do not have the key to unlock that door.

2 when people go and see someone to help them out in something they want someone to fix that for them otherwise they would be fixing that by themselves.

3 People like that are emotional strugglers they have mental blocks they do not follow up.

4. If a third part is going to make them to commit into something they will be blaming the third part for their failures.