I have consistent crashes in zoom if I try to manage a participant (put on hold, mute, etc) as they disconnect, but at least I can get back on fairly quickly.
The other one I have for enterprise reasons is Vibe, and starting that beast up is a "five minute notice" affair.
I feel you, what I do is use chromium specifically for that and nothing else.
Interesting that you didn't face the Zoom issues I did though. I wonder what gives.