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I would not judge people for not having children. And plenty people should not have children - those who have tendency to be abusive and so on.

But I also think that many people expect/require too much of parents and parenting. It does not have to be and should not be insummortable all encompassing responsibility for average person. It does not have to be as isolating as it is and should not be.

These are doing of the way our society is structured, not something inherent to parenting.