I submit that you don't know what gaslighting is. Further, I submit that you're attempting to coopt the language of marginalized groups to buttress a weak and selfish viewpoint.
You're right, the stakes are civil society. Which you no longer get to claim you have when you sacrifice the weak and the sick to Moloch for pseudofictional accounts in a computer somewhere.
We must take care of each other, it is our basic obligation as citizens of a civil society, and this is the only way we can do that right now.
I shall not buy what you are selling.