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by shrimp_emoji 2258 days ago
>So cut yourself some slack. Nobody can keep up with everything. You aren't broken, you aren't incompetent, you're just human, and humans have limited bandwidth. I think that's where the answer starts: Stop expecting that you can keep up. Stop thinking that it's reasonable that you can keep up. It's not a reasonable expectation; there's too much for that.

This.

But I only learned this kind of self-compassion after having my pride eroded to a nub. :3

Also, embracing the futility and meaninglessness and briefness of life helps. Reflect on your mortality, and how it might come sooner than you think. AND NOT IN A SAD WAY; more like in a humorous way, salted with the gratitude to have been (and still be) a part of everything. xD