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You might look into UPS' My Choice, which allows you to set a permanent preferred delivery redirection. Alas it is not available for all shipments, e.g., signature required or a shipper can tell UPS not to allow redirection. There's a charge (per delivery) unless redirected to a UPS store/access-point/center or you are a premium (paying) member. FedEx Delivery Manager is similar.

[TulliusCicero]

I'm not sure "you might want to look into this service that's unreliable and costs extra money" makes for a very compelling proposition.

This is exactly the kind of example that makes vertical integration so often more consumer-friendly.