Curated lists:
Jeff Atwood more comprehensive list https://blog.codinghorror.com/recommended-reading-for-develo...
Steve Yegge
https://sites.google.com/site/steveyegge2/ten-great-books
Dan Luu
http://danluu.com/programming-books/
Marty Jacobs
https://zeroequalsfalse.com/posts/programming-books-you-wish...
BGO Software
https://www.bgosoftware.com/blog/8-most-influential-books-on...
Aggregated lists:
https://www.reddit.com/r/learnprogramming/wiki/books
Designing Data-Intensive Applications and it's related books:
https://anvaka.github.io/greview/ddia/1/