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> We don't do that to men. Men who get around have bragging rights for "being a stud" or whatever.

This canard, along with much of the rest of your post, is wildly separable from "let's not molest and rape children".

Sexual morality is a subtle thing. Plenty of people have sexual trauma they associate with a culture of licentiousness or libertinism, which to the untrained eye is indistinguishable from one in which we "build bridges and foster healthy and safe avenues for sexual expression and sexual satisfaction". Or perhaps more cynically / realistically, over time, as a sense of security grows, the latter shades into the former.