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> I don't understand how people on more normal incomes do it in places like the UK and US.

They simply have a worse quality of life. Hand the baby off to older family members or daycare and spend 50 hours or more per week at work or commuting to work, and spend maybe 3 to 4 hours a day if that with their infant, with which they still need to cook, clean, excercise, etc.

And looking around at many people, clearly they’re sacrificing many of those life enhancing activities in exchange for a little bit of financial security and the hope they or their kids can make it out of the bottom 90%, so that maybe they can spend some time with their babies.