[jason13]

Oh he actually wrote a "it's-not-you-it's-me essay", I actually didn't think he was arrogant, until you mentioned that. If that is true, then he really is arrogant.

[euccastro]

Oops.. I was aiming for the cliche about the girl trying not to hurt her boyfriend when breaking up.

FWIW, this is the essay. Forget about my broken metaphor and just judge for yourself

http://www.paulgraham.com/judgement.html