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by LZ_Khan 2308 days ago
Was it unsolicited? If the poster confided to his boss that he has focus issues, his boss might have just been trying to offer a solution (albeit a bad one). I don't see what's unethical about this.
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It’s still not appropriate for a manager who is not acting in a medical capacity to make that kind of recommendation.

It’s a huge huge leap to go from “I feel like your focus needs improvement” to “go get an amphetamine prescription because I feel you are not working hard enough.”

I agree that it's inappropriate, but it seems like an equally huge leap to go from that to "your days are numbered" when we don't have any other context.

Of course our reactions are heavily biased towards our personal experiences. If my manager said something like that to me I'd laugh it off as a bad joke or a poorly executed gesture with good intentions.

Manager with ADHD here. The most I'd do is suggest checking with a professional, not impersonating one with my manager hat on.

And mostly I avoid prying about mental health, except to the extent the individual relationship makes the topic come up (e.g. if they mention it).

If it's impacting work performance, I can inquire in more open ended ways than that.

He could offer many solutions to a problem with focus, headphones, flexible working hours/location, ect but not medication. He is not a doctor and knows nothing about his employee's medication history.
> I don't feel like my focus is a problem.