[dutchCourage]

> what advantages do you find over approaching women (or men) in real life ?

I've always clicked the most with people I met through friends. But if you move to a new city you might not get to do that.

An app sounds better to me than approaching someone I don't know just because I find them attractive. You get to see if you have common interests and have a little chat before actually meeting up. Plus you know the interest is mutual.

I have a hard time connecting with people I know nothing about, and I'd be worried about bothering someone who's just minding their own business.

So I'd say if you can't find your match through your social life dating apps are helpful.