[bluGill]

I hope OP means something like I don't go to bars. Alcohol in a place that encourages you to stay around for a while is what passes for socialize to a large number of people.

There are plenty of other social things you can do in life, but I've noticed that there is a crowd where none of them count. Either you sit in your favorite bar and talk, or you don't socialize. My time spent camping with friends is interesting, but it doesn't count even though we spent plenty of time around the campfire (just to name one activity I do)

[ecoled_ame]

no i simply don’t speak to people casually outside of work. i just skateboard alone or explore or read or other solo stuff. i just don’t like being around people in a friendly manner.