[gnicholas]

I used to see older relatives post photos of very fancy meals they ate, and I thought they were being irrational/foolish. Then I had kids and realized that if you only eat out with your spouse (and no kids) 2-3 times per year, spending that much is not so crazy. If you have a babysitter, that will easily run $50, and it seems odd to spend more on that than the food/experience at the restaurant.

But to be clear, when people refer to a "nice meal" costing $50-100, they're talking about an evening of being waited upon, not just the food. What you're paying for is service, ambiance, and restaurant location (overlooking a beach? at the top of a skyscraper?). It's not crazy for someone to decide to choose to indulge by buying nice food bundled with a relaxing experience, compared with buying nice food separate from a relaxing experience (going on vacation, going to a sporting event, having a massage).

But for the record, I agree that $50-100 is an extravagant meal. I think they chose the euphemism "nice" to make it sound like the tradeoff was for something not so extraordinary.