[scott00]

I think you are correct in your basic assertion that no one wants manual memory management for its own sake. What they really want is sufficient performance for their use case. The benchmarks you usually see are throughput oriented, and on small heaps. If you have tight latency budgets and/or huge heaps, the performance is not close.

Optional manual memory management sounds great, but I'm skeptical it would work well in practice. The reason is that if the language default is GC, libraries won't be designed for manual memory management, meaning it will be hard for your manual code to interact with data structures created by non-manual parts.