[yibg]

My ex had a miscarriage when we were together. We were young and I don’t think we handled it properly mentally. Kind of just pretended it didn’t happen and moved on.

She’s pregnant again and it seems to be going better, but I noticed she was very hesitant to tell anyone about it until she had to. Also seems to be very cautious about the whole thing. Not making preparations until she has to.

We are friends and still pretty close. Any tips on how to support her through this?

[HappyDreamer]

I'm clueless about these things, still, here's an idea:

Ask her, maybe she'll tell you. Talk with her and share your thoughts, the things you wrote just above. -- Maybe can work, when you're still pretty close friends

Again I don't really know and maybe this is a weird idea.