[ljm]

This is quite an unusual topic but I find myself in agreement. But that's mostly because I don't agree with the general expectation that everything has to be a 'community', that the maintainer now has stewardship over. And the community is almost impossible to please as it grows larger and makes greater demands.

At one point it would have been code that anyone was free to use, before it becomes distorted as some bizarre social endeavour, and then people who've never used the software find themselves part of this 'community' and start to weigh in to add social pressure.

Use the software or don't; if the patches are rejected, fork it and go that way. If the maintainer won't merge the patches, because he has his own vision, you are perfectly welcome to branch out and follow your own. Or just use something else.

Having a maintainer adhere to a set of standards that only start to apply once 'the community' get involved and take control, is super unfair to the maintainer.