[mynegation]

You cannot change other people, you can only change how _you_ react to other people and the world around you.

If Actix is that important to so many people, eventually there will be a person and/or organization that will step up, fork the projects, apply the patches, set the principles and code of conduct (or not), keep as much "unsafe" code as they deem necessary and try to rally the community around it.

The open source creators and maintainers gave you something and asked for nothing. They are people with their weaknesses, faults, insecurities, and other passions and commitments, like we all are. Get the best of what they are willing to give, give them the best you are willing to give and they are willing to accept, and move on.