[pbhjpbhj]

Is this: "people try to help me and I don't want them to"? Or something else?

(Genuine question; that's not a negative judgement.)

[mlang23]

Thats part of it. Unwanted help is definitely an issue. However, it doesnt end there. The more religious a person is, the more they take their time to explain to me how bad they think my situation is. Patronisation, pittying, and a general attitude of looking down at me.

[Hendrikto]

> Patronisation, pittying, and a general attitude of looking down at me.

Which is hard to square with the "it‘s god‘s will" bs…