| This is why we have religion ;) Thou shall work hard, get equivalent reward in this life or next one. I tried to become religious before but I am too stubborn to do it. We all want some purpose in life, distractions can work temporary or forever if you want them to with cracks appearing often needing to be filled. Personal advice for myself: - Live and compare relatively with lookout for opportunities. - Focus on self than any 'societal' or 'familial' duty crap. You want to become the best you, it doesn't matter what happens to others. Make a list of people that you care about and forget the rest (includes HN posters). - If I fail, then x is to blame. Diversion of blame but not autopsy. Live blameless or regretless. - Don't think you owe anyone anything but everyone owes you. - Focus on present with vague long term plans. No need to get upset over something you can't predict. Give yourself reward for completing any short term goals. - Build a consistent favorable moral system. Once you are done, you don't need to question it. Follow it till the day you die or something breaks. - Remember you have a choice to live or quit. (Sometimes it helps you gain control back to pull through things) I am currently building a framework that incorporates above for me, I am going to make it favorable for me and then forget about how I got there.
I will believe that it is rational as oppose to religion therefore enabling me to put trust into it and follow it blindly. |
The irony..