[commandlinefan]

There’s an old saying: “people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” It’s supposed to be inspirational, but it’s actually depressing because it’s so accurate. How do you put it into action as a dev? Never argue. Ever. If you argue, you’ll lose the argument anyway (you have no power), and they’ll just remember you as the person who was argumentative. If they say, “can you add AI to this product by Friday?” You say, “yeah, sure, let me look into that.” In a sane, rational, just world, everybody would be working together on a shared, common vision, and they’d realize that by giving you herculean tasks with impossible deadlines that nobody could achieve they’re actually hurting themselves as much as (if not more) than they’re hurting you, but the grim reality is that that isn’t the world we live in. If they add scope, just shrug and accept it. Don’t kill yourself with nights and weekends trying to meet their deadlines either - just say, unapologetically, “I was able to do ___ and I’m still working on ___”.