[koonsolo]

Well don't have any kids then.

So from an evolutionary standpoint, focus might not be that important after all ;).

[throwaway72873]

I have kids. Again it is about setting boundaries and respect.

Most people make mistake they start compromising very early for no reason, and when things get tough, they just get buried.

[koonsolo]

So how do you set the boundry when your baby starts crying in the middle of the night, or when your kid throws up in the bed? Let the wife handle it?