Yes, VirtualBox is an exception, because it does its own weird NAT.
VMware:
> The host computer has an adapter on the NAT network (identical to the host-only adapter on the host-only network). This adapter allows the host and the virtual machines to communicate with each other for such purposes as file sharing. The NAT never forwards traffic from the host adapter.
Libvirt/KVM:
> By default, guests that are connected via a virtual network with <forward mode='nat'/> can make any outgoing network connection they like. Incoming connections are allowed from the host, and from other guests connected to the same libvirt network, but all other incoming connections are blocked by iptables rules.
Hyper-V lets you connect from host to NAT'd guests, though the documentation doesn't explicitly say this. Parallels works this way too. Xen is a weird one, because it doesn't really do the NAT itself; if you follow the Linux instructions it'll work the way I describe.
While I agree, some hypervisors act differently, but my original comment stands as due to at least one major hypervisor not allowing direct host access to NAT’d VMs, you can’t assume it works given no context.
Either way, thanks for the research. I stopped after checking VMware.
VMware:
> The host computer has an adapter on the NAT network (identical to the host-only adapter on the host-only network). This adapter allows the host and the virtual machines to communicate with each other for such purposes as file sharing. The NAT never forwards traffic from the host adapter.
Libvirt/KVM:
> By default, guests that are connected via a virtual network with <forward mode='nat'/> can make any outgoing network connection they like. Incoming connections are allowed from the host, and from other guests connected to the same libvirt network, but all other incoming connections are blocked by iptables rules.
Hyper-V lets you connect from host to NAT'd guests, though the documentation doesn't explicitly say this. Parallels works this way too. Xen is a weird one, because it doesn't really do the NAT itself; if you follow the Linux instructions it'll work the way I describe.