[amitmathew]

Hey, I can relate to this! I also started a company based on a specific pain point in my spouse's profession. Although the best situation is to solve a problem you've experienced firsthand, having a significant other be able to give honest feedback on a specific challenge is pretty great.

I think the tough part that engineers have with these types of side projects is that it's hard to assess how much time to devote to developing the product. A lot of people will try to convince you to spend all your time talking to the customer. I mean that's important too, but it's so much easier when you can show them something that's great rather than just tell them about it. And that's the thing - product development isn't most important thing to do in the early stages, but it's still very important.

I wish there was more insight into why the project failed though. It wasn't clear to me the project had to die. If he started focusing on customer development, could the project have survived? Could he win back his wife's interest? I was a tiny bit disappointed because his project is an adjacent area to one of my company's products and I want to see it succeed!