[mirimir]

Maybe it's a sexist thing to say, but in my experience, men are far more likely to make overt obnoxious comments.

On the other hand, it's my experience that women are far more likely to share obnoxious comments with their friends. But I admit that's based on a small sample, just close female friends and lovers, and wives. And perhaps I'm not the sort of guy who encourages such sharing by male friends. Or even has such male friends, for that matter.