[nhangen]

Are these actual flaws, or just some woman's negative assessment based on her perspective?

If you can fix a legitimate flaw, then do it. Otherwise, it sounds like a confidence problem. Find something to help you re-build your confidence.

[dufusheart]

We got to know eachother very quickly during a time when I raised money for our company and was on top of the world. I wrongly assumed that because everything else in life was going well, that this relationship was just good karma coming out of nowhere, so I was extremely open and "googly-eyed" toward her. This came across as me being "a 14-year-old boy in man's body" and "a fool who doesn't know a thing about women and relationships."