[1996]

When the spouse work-related social meetups become the highlight of the year, something is wrong.

Some parts of the world can be isolating. You may want to talk to your wife about moving back to a more civilized place.

[nsxwolf]

Chicago is a pretty civilized place.

[1996]

Exactly my point. A place where people can easily socialize, regardless of job or social status.

OP, talk to your spouse and try to go back there!

[nsxwolf]

We live in Chicago. I work remote for a Bay Area company.