Depending on the game and setup, you can probably talk to your coworkers during the game without actually playing. This should be taken into account in selection of game and setup.
I was thinking about it in a remote context. personally I find sitting in discord but not playing the game is a lot more boring than being at a bar and not drinking.
at an irl event with games, it's not weird at all to socialize without playing.
at an irl event with games, it's not weird at all to socialize without playing.