[nudemanonbike]

As far as noise cancelling goes, there's really only 3 phones that are worth considering:

WH-1000XM3

QC35

Bose 700

As a side note, I use a pair of beyerdynamics DT770 80 ohm headphones, and they have positively excellent isolation. With music on, I can't hear anything outside, and nobody can hear anything I'm hearing at all. Have you tried to see if closed, isolated headphones fit your use case? There's way more options in that space, so you're more likely to find something comfortable and with a sound signature you really like.