[jamongkad]

OTOH I appreciate what Wil is doing, have you every heard of the Stockdale Paradox? You might want to give it a quick read but here's a snippet for you just to give you an idea

"This is a very important lesson. You must never confuse faith that you will prevail in the end -- which you can never afford to lose -- with the discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be." The Stockdale Paradox, coined by Jim Collins in Good to Great (Collins, 2001).

nuff said.