Depending on the issue, it may not be something that it’s appropriate to ask forgiveness for. For instance, “I made a porn video with my high school boyfriend and it leaked to the internet” is a mistake, not an injury done to the now-husband. Same with “I got pregnant in college and had an abortion.” Or “I was addicted to painkillers long before we met and stole money from friends and family, but I’m 100% clean now.”