Sorry, but your inability to interact with your co-workers makes you a difficult person to employ. A ton of folks don't need this kind of special treatment.
It's more like your boss would rather have someone who doesn't need your special treatment, but since they have you, they've got to invent ways to deal with your special blend of crazy (office hours).
Further, you have no clue what my policy is regarding instant messaging, don't lash out at me because you're feeling vulnerable.
My boss who suggested office hours wouldn't want to hire someone with your view.