[throw51319]

Not sure dude I'm 27 and in the same boat.

The relaxing part you can foster by meditating and getting outside of the evolutionary impulses to always achieve and do more and get more.

I think the solution is to realize that only you can unstuck yourself from life. Some people stagnate and then learn to like the stagnation (usually by picking up basic azz hobbies and buying new things for cheap thrills).

You can say f this, go for what you want and trying new things and take risks. If you fail (whatever that means) then you can go back to this rut but you know that you at least made an attempt to venture outside.