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by atonse
2440 days ago
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Right but intention is everything. There's a difference between someone who knows you don't have a good relationship with your family and then really just being in-your-face about it (that's intentionally making you feel bad about your family), vs someone who doesn't know. Yes you feel bad in both cases, but you probably feel much worse when it's an intentional thing. |
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Of course. I don't want to make people feel bad regardless of intention so my personal SOP is to try not to hurt people in regards to gendered language by keeping it as neutral as possible, and that's pretty easy when it's typed out IMO.